That is The Worst Lesson I've Ever Heard

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The new missionary district leader could not believe what he was hearing.  He was listening to Elder Parker, who had been out for almost two years, stumble his way through the first discussion.  Any missionary of worth who had been out three weeks or longer knew the first discussion, but Elder Parker didn't.  The early morning study session came to a close and Elder Parker left with his companion.  

The new district leader turned to his companion, shook his head and said, "That's the worst first discussion I have ever heard.  Isn't Elder Parker dedicated enough to learn the discussions?"  His companion was surprised that he did not know the discussion; he had always felt that Elder Parker was an excellent missionary.

The next day was their first district meeting of the month, and each of the companionships was to come prepared to share its goals for the new month.  It was not an easy mission to baptize in, and the baptism goal of each companionship ranged from three to five people. 

Then it was Elder Parker's turn to share his baptism goal for the month.  When he said that they were planning on baptizing twenty people that month, the district leader almost laughed out loud.  He thought to himself, "Elder Parker doesn't even know the first discussion but is going to baptize twenty people.  This I have to see."

The next week when the missionaries met, the only Elders who had baptized were Elder Parker and his companion.  They had baptized five people.  The district leader wanted to see how Elder Parker could baptize so many despite his not knowing the discussions, so he asked to go with Elder Parker the next time he was going to teach a first discussion.

The next day, the district leader received a phone call and was invited to go with Elder Parker the following morning to help him teach the first discussion to an interested family.  In those days, the discussions were memorized and given almost word for word.  Missionaries would take turns, each giving a few paragraphs and shifting back and forth so it seemed like an informal discussion. 

Elder Parker started the discussion and completely murdered the first part.  The district leader took his turn and tried to bring some order back to the flow of the discussion.  It was then Elder Parker's turn again--he completely skipped several key paragraphs.  By the end of the lesson, the district leader was totally disoriented and confused.  He felt that the family probably felt the same way.

When the discussion was over, Elder Parker leaned forward and put his hand on the arm of the family's father.  He then looked him straight in the eyes, told him how much he loved him and his family, and bore one of the most humble and powerful testimonies that the district leader had ever heard. 

By the time he finished, every member of the family, including the father, and both Elders had tears running down their cheeks.  Next Elder Parker taught the father how to pray, and they all knelt down while the father prayed that they might receive testimonies of their own and thanked Heavenly Father for the great love that he felt.  Two weeks later the whole family was baptized.

As they were driving away from the discussion, Elder Parker apologized to the district leader.  He told him that he felt very bad that he did not know the discussions better.  He said that he had always had a problem with memorization.  He said that he got up at five-thirty instead of six o'clock every morning and spent two hours on the discussions but could never remember them well when it came time to teach them. 

He explained that he knelt in prayer before teaching each family and talked with Heavenly Father about his problem.  He would ask Heavenly Father to bless him so that when he bore his testimony the people would feel his love and the Spirit and know that they were being taught the truth.

Humbled, the district leader spent the rest of the day pondering what he had learned about teaching the gospel.  For the first time he realized that it was not discussions but love and the Spirit that converted people to the gospel. The district leader never taught the gospel the same way again.

Teachings Ideas and Related Scriptures:

Humility:  Elder Parker demonstrated the importance that humility plays in having the Lord's help when we are trying to help others. (D&C 112:10). "Be thou humble; and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers." (D&C 12:8; D&C 38:41).

Judging Others:  The district leader learned a lesson about judging others without the Spirit or even all of the facts.  He thought that the Elder was lazy when actually he was working harder than the district leader. (Moroni 7:18):  "And now, my brethren, seeing that ye know the light by which ye may judge, which light is the light of Christ, see that ye do not judge wrongfully; for with that same judgment which ye judge ye shall also be judged."  (See also 1 Samuel 16:7; Matthew 7:1-2)

Love:  The story demonstrates the importance that love plays when teaching the gospel.  (D&C 12:8):  "And no one can assist in this work except he shall be humble and full of love, having faith, hope, and charity, being temperate in all things, whatsoever shall be entrusted to his care."  (See also John 13:34-35; Galatians 5:13-14; 1 John:4)

Missionary Work:  This story can be used as a good example of the kind of missionary work that changes lives--missionary work done with love and the Spirit.  (D&C 42:14):  "And the Spirit shall be given unto you by the prayer of faith; and if ye receive not the Spirit ye shall not teach."  (See also Galatians 5:13-14; D&C 12:8; D&C 50:13-14; D&C 50:17-18.)

Teaching:  This is also an excellent story to use when teaching teachers how to teach.  It stresses the importance of teaching with love and with the Spirit.  (D&C 50:13-14):  "Wherefore, I the Lord ask you this question--unto what were ye ordained?  "To preach my gospel by the Spirit, even the Comforter which was sent forth to teach the truth." (See also D&C 12:8; D&C 42:14; D&C 50:17-18.)

From the book: Stories that Teach Gospel Principles, by Allan K. Burgess & Max H. Molgard, 1989.